To think if you say you'll do something you should then stick to it ?

[goldensyrupisshit]

So I know it's nothing major in the grand scheme of things but I'm pretty fucked off. I've a few appointments coming up shortly and a trusted person ( not going into specifics as outing ) has royally dropped me in the shit. Now if this person had originally said sorry I'm not available that would've been fine I could've a) arranged someone else or b) cancelled. Now it's too late to cancel and I'm flapping trying to sort out alternative care. So am I being unreasonable to think you shouldn't agree to something if your unwilling to commit ? Btw there was no reason given to suddenly becoming unavailable.

This place can be brutal at times and tbh I fully expected people to jump on me but with how pissed off I was at the time I think I'd have given as good as I got. Thank you all as it does help to see that actually I wasn't being irrational in my thoughts and feelings

OP, completely agree. Keyboard warrior style. I very much doubt most of the people laying into users here would be so rude and aggressive face to face. Tut. Nah, your relative was being an arse.