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DS playing out

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Mrsglitterfairy · 22/08/2017 18:56

Not really aibu but more of a wwyd in this situation?
DS is 9 and has recently over the past few months started playing out. There's a boy that he is in the same class as at school and has been since reception that he was playing with. They've always had a bit of an on/off friendship but recently this other boy has started playing with another lad who is a year older and a bit 'street smart' shall we say.
They've now started over the past few weeks being really nasty to DS while he's been out. He's playing with other friends but whenever they see him they throw stuff at him, block his way and call him names. They've also been playing knock a door run at the house although DH & I have both told them to stop.
Again this afternoon, DS went out to call for a friend and they were at the top of the avenue, they wouldn't let him past and were calling him names etc. He ended up running home in tears.
I'm don't want to be one of them precious parents but in the same way I feel that he should be able to play out in a community without being, as I see it now, bullied.
Do I leave them to sort it between themselves or do something? And of so, what?

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Mrsglitterfairy · 05/09/2017 15:31

Reigniting my old thread here as still in need of some advice..
DS went back to school yesterday and is in the same class as the boy mentioned above and is already having difficulties.
He has already been calling him names, pushed him over in pe yesterday and generally just being a pain to him. His new favourite insult is to call him a 'bad banana' because he has white skin and freckles apparently his face looks like a banana that's gone bad!
I feel that I need to speak to the teacher at pick up tomorrow (I'm working late tonight) but then also don't want to be seen as making a fuss

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5rivers7hills · 05/09/2017 15:33

Your child is being bullied, make a fucking fuss!

Katedotness1963 · 05/09/2017 15:35

Nip this crap in the bud! Go to the school.

Mulberry72 · 05/09/2017 15:38

Of course you need to make a fuss, your child is being bullied verbally and physically.

I would have gone in to school this morning!

FallingOrbit · 05/09/2017 15:40

I know, for certain I'll be bombarded for this, or it'll be removed by MN because people will report it as terrible advice but I'm going to say it anyway.

Best cure for bullies, and your kid is very clearly on the receiving end of bullying... tell your lad to belt the horrible little shitbag square in the nose and laugh at him when he starts crying. Problem solved.

If he lets people push him around now, it'll stick with him forever even if he turns it around later in life.

Let the flaming commence.

Mrsglitterfairy · 05/09/2017 15:40

Right, you have confirmed that I'm not being over sensitive and will definitely go and see the teacher tomorrow.
You can't see them in the mornings anymore without making a prior appointment as they now just go into class by themselves so the teachers are not outside. They are at the end of the day though. Luckily the teacher that he has this year is great, he's had him before and he's one of the best at the school.

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Mrsglitterfairy · 05/09/2017 15:42

Funny you should say that FallingOrbit DH said something along the same lines. Now if this was ds2 who is 6 he would have no trouble doing that but DS in question is pretty quiet and would be afraid of getting into trouble from the teachers.

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Ttbb · 05/09/2017 15:44

Have you talked to their parents?

Mrsglitterfairy · 05/09/2017 16:31

I haven't spoken to his parents as I don't really know who's who. He seems to have various people picking him up etc, mum (I think) nan, uncle, grandad etc. Not really sure who he lives with as it's all a bit strange. DS isn't sure who he lives with either

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