Bit of background first, I'm living my with my DM while my home is having some quite intensive renovation done (We're looking at 10 months to complete and I've been with my mother around 4 months) My siblings also live with her and are aged 18 and 20.
She is away a lot and I do like to help her out because she is doing me a big favour (I'm also heavily pregnant) so when she goes away I'll run the vaccum cleaner round, do the washing make sure everything is generally clean and tidy. However there is one thing that irks me above all, my darling siblings (who don't actually leave their rooms except to go to work and come downstairs to eat) insist on coming down, making food and not washing up. Prime example of this was this morning. I'd eaten my breakfast, just washed my breakfast pots, brought the washing in and folded it then popped out to town and when I came back there is a sinkful of pots waiting for me like they expect me to just clean their mess up. Up until about a month ago I'd have washed them but it's seriously got to the point where it's irritating me. I have spoken to them about it but each blames the other saying things like 'It's not mine, it's xxxx's' or 'Only one of them is mine the rest is xxxx's surely he should wash them?' or worst of all 'I'll do it later' (It never gets done). and interestingly when my mother returns I'm the one that gets a bollocking for it even after I've explained that I've already washed mine. She says that if I'm in the house doing nothing (I'm on maternity leave) then I should do it, even if there are days when my brothers aren't at work. AIBU to be pissed off? I know in the grand scheme of things it's trivial but it winds me up something chronic.