My DP auntie is more like his mum fetched him up etc, when we first met he was weary of me meeting her and he said she can come across quite intimidating, when I met her I didn't really like her but I don't dislike her either, I'm polite and call round, although not as often as my DP. I wouldn't just call round without him or ring and ask if she fancies a cuppa u know that kind of thing.
Well she has neighbor who she's friends with I myself have heard her gossiping about her, but then act as though there best buddies when she calls round. One day (I carnt remember what my DS had done but nothing major or naughty and she rudely told me my son was a brat.
I didn't say anything at the time to get the peace mainly. I have just visited DP auntie with him today, the neighour was already there when I arrived but left shortly after, she didn't speak to me said bye to everyone expect me which is fine, I then said to DP auntie that I was keen on her.
DP auntie just rung me and said if you ever talk about one of my friends like that I'll kick fuck out of you. I was gobsmacked to say the least and I'm pretty upset and pissed at her aibu to be pissed