Aaaahhh sorry I need to rant. My in-laws are very difficult people, they are toxic and dh has admitted he should cut them out of his life but he cant. Stupidly we told them I was being induced on the 5th, they rang the other day to say they were coming to visit on 21st for 4 days. They never ask what is convenient for us they just arrange what ever they want. DH rang back a few days later and told them we couldn't cope with 2 young children, a new born, me recovering from my back pain and mother in law who is disabled and needs help especially if we go out which they will want to do. DH asked them to come for 2 day and then agreed so we thought that was it, until father in law rang back an hour later to say he had booked the b&b for 4 night's. DH and I are fuming. This is not the first time they have just invited themselves. They just do what they want and don't give a fuck about anyone else. AIBU to want to tell them they are being rude and they need to consider us before making decisions.