To end this relationship because DP won't stop posting about me

[Hypnorum]

DP won't stop posting about me on MN. Our relationship has nearly come to an end several times because of it. She has promised never to do it again because it upsets me, but she still does it. Dirty washing, events, hobbies, health, tragedies. It's like a biography. I have no control about what's private in my life anymore. Help me understand why she can't help herself. Or should I just accept she will keep doing it and end it all?

It's not unreasonable to end a relationship for any reason. You are never obliged to be in a relationship with someone.

You are being ridiculous thinking that someone complaining about dirty washing on MN is in any way writing a biography or failing to respect your privacy.

You are not being ridiculous to think that if an adult promises not to do something, they should not do it.

It sounds like she is unhappy in the relationship. What are peoples responses to her posts? Are they generally in support of her? If so maybe she has a point. If not then yes the problem does sound like it lies with her and she has promised she will stop and has ignored your wishes o I would be considering walking out.

Is there a back story or in-joke here?

Sounds like she is actively trying to get you to leave. I can't think why...

Do you own a kayak?

What do you want to gain from this thread? Validation? Some wifey bashing? Or are you making a point to her?

btw are you sure that all the posts are about you? Does it look like a lot of name changes?

People in glass houses......

Do you 'do your hobbies' every weekend after working really, really hard all week?

How do you know what she is posting? Don't read it. I post and my DP has no idea what I post or what my username is.

Is this Kayak-Knob?

I'll bite. If she's got reason to post and is asking opinions then isn't that a sign that she cares enough about you to want to improve things.

I post about my DP.
But he's not a twat. Far from it😁

What does she post exactly and are they true?