Aibu?

[Jessiecat27]

So me and dp decided earlier in the year that we would only go to a festival if I felt up to it and if we could afford it, I'll be 28 weeks pregnant and we had said if we go then we would get a hotel as I don't fancy camping for obvious reasons! Dp's friends are going but we realised we can't afford it as obviously we have other priorities now, or so I thought. He has decided he wants to go without me and I know what he's like, he will definitely find a way to go (his friend will probably pay) leaving me stuck at home. If we hadn't already decided we would either both go or neither of us go then I wouldn't be bothered but aibu to think it's shitty of him to go even though we really cannot afford it? Can't tell if I'm more angry or upset

If you could afford it, would you be going?

Yeah, but neither of us can afford to go, his mate will end up paying for him as he usually does

I think he should be supporting you, by not going.

He might be thinking that it's a waste not to go, seeing as he needs to put his social life on hold, when the baby is here.

You're probably not going to agree over this, so it's how you handle it. Don't hold back in telling him how disappointed you are and you expect better in the future.