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To be dreading the next fortnight ?

5 replies

Mypyjamasarebaggy · 12/08/2017 10:02

Feeling very conflicted this morning. I finished work for a fortnights holiday last night, I am a single parent by choice of one DD aged 5. She is on her first long school holiday having just finished reception year. I work full time and we have a fab CM who she loves and who looks after her while I am at work. In past years we would have already been on a non-school holiday holiday somewhere warm with other friends who also have children but that hasn't happened this year. I have got some ££ in the holiday fund but am horrified at just how expensive everything is in the school holiday so am put off by that and the idea of 24/7 childcare alone. She can be quite clingy when I am around and wouldn't likely go off to kids club alone. All our other friends are away so there aren't many playmates about for her or me. I am feeling bad for feeling like this but I am thoroughly miserable at the prospect of entertaining my much loved daughter alone for a fortnight from home. I am jealous of the friends who are away and feel like slumping in front of the telly with gin.

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riverotter · 12/08/2017 10:04

Is going away an option?

I think if it was me I'd book a week somewhere in Wales or similar where it's a bit rundown but plenty for chidren.

MrTrebus · 12/08/2017 10:06

Just go on a UK holiday maybe a Haven? She will entertain herself somewhat on the slides in the pool etc but you can still spend your evenings in front of the telly with a gin after having some fairly enjoyable days!

junebirthdaygirl · 12/08/2017 10:34

Could you visit family for a few days?
Then go away even one night to a child friendly place or a beach?
It will probably be better than you think. Maybe set a goal. To ride with stabilisers or to swim in the pool every second day so she really improves.

Mypyjamasarebaggy · 12/08/2017 10:53

Arggh, I know I'm feeling very negative, if the weather was better I'd probably go ahead and book something but can't face three wet days in a caravan! I think the major problem is I've not had a holiday myself and this isn't going to be the kind I have previously enjoyed. My DD has already been out and about with the CM and would like to just hang out with me and chill. I don't mind this for a day or so but of course what I'd really like (selfish cow) is a few days on a sun lounger with a cocktail and a massage. It aint happening. I am grieving for holidays past!

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Ilovetolurk · 12/08/2017 11:21

If tou can afford it book a cheap all inclusive last minute deal and just go. I did same thing with my DD only a year older than you and was fine, she made pool friends then went to kids club there was evening entertainment

There are still some cheap deals to be had you could look for four day hols to save cash

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