Mulling things over so I'm sorry in advance if this is an odd ramble but a few times in my life I've had to step away from groups I've been part of because I can't stand the bitchy behaviour.
It's happening again part of a group on our new build estate I just assumed as more people moved in it would be more inclusive but the group have been quite selective who they will speak to and invite to events etc. They've started to talk about another lady who seems very nice but they taken a dislike to her and started to slag her off on the messenger group so I'm going to step away again from a group.
Everyone else seems to think this is perfectly acceptable- it used to happen at my old work one woman dressed differently from the rest and they said vile things about her.
Aibu to keep walking away? Am I being a sensitive naive soul and need to realise that people are bitvhy and get over it? It does not sit right me but I know by leaving the group I'll be next target which I will have to accept