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To find my boss scary

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Mumtoleonardoo · 08/08/2017 19:16

I find her so cold and unapproachable. I feel like when I talk to her she's analysing my every move and negatively evaluating me.

She smiles and comes in making jokes but is never like that with me. She acts like she can't stand me. Seems very aloof.

My old boss was lovely as was the one before. I have become lasting friends with both so
I've never not got on with my boss before.
Maybe I've just been lucky.

I've only just started this job but I can't imagine having to put up with her any longer.

She is very organised and is good at allocating and showing you what to do. She comes in several times a day to check I'm alright but is so serious when taking to me. When I try to give me opinion on something she sometimes shoots it down. I said I doubted (xxx company) would allow us to pay 25% less and she put her hand up to me and said 'well don't presume'!
My partner says I can't make opinions on her after a month but I just feel so nervous and negatively judged in her presence and I think there's a lot to be said for gut instinct.

AIBU?

OP posts:
Shoxfordian · 08/08/2017 19:25

Yeah I don't think you can assume she doesn't like you..she is probably checking up because you're new

ChasedByBees · 08/08/2017 19:29

I think YABU yes. You're new, she has known the others for a lot longer. Are you giving vibes you don't like her? Because from this description it doesn't sound like you do.

scaryclown · 08/08/2017 19:31

Parent-child
She needs to be more adult-adult

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