I've been with my husband for 7 years, we have 3 children and I love him very much but we've been through a lot and we are battling with depression.
I've been open with my depression for a while but my husband is starting to express his, he says it's not me that is the problem, it's the loss of a parent and other life issues that are building up.
I'm starting to feel better and now I'm coming to realise all is not as good as it seemed, I'm back low as ever.
I genuinely don't know what to do anymore. I just feel like we are heading for doom all the time. My husband has changed and in the past year he has become violent on the odd occasion after having too many. We went out recently without the kids and he told me he has no interest of going out. We went out anyway but he wasn't his self and we had a fall out. I just feel like there's nothing left I can do. He doesn't want any help and he keeps pushing me away, he's paranoid and once he gets an idea in his head he is too stubborn to reason. I know the kids need their parents but am I wrong to bite the bullet and suggest going out seperate ways? Regardless of what he says I'm making him unhappy and I can't see him go the paths I have been down.