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Break ins and suspicious behaviour

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NeverlandWendy · 07/08/2017 21:57

I have recently moved house with DP, we know the area very well, terraced house on a busy street, bus route, lots of commuters early morning/evening. Today we were walking home and a woman approached us and asked us when we moved in, assuming she was a neighbour introducing herself we told her.

Now this woman didn't look suspicious but was acting oddly, she proceeded to tell us (didn't introduce herself just jumped straight in) that she lived down a nearby road and was burgled. (She was hanging around on my road) She gave graphic detail about the burglary and seemed as though she was fishing for info about DP & I and our house which obviously we didn't give. We said thank you for her info and agreed to stay vigilant however I felt she had outstayed her welcome.

AIBU to think she was acting suspiciously? I am very nervous, I am home a lot at the moment due to my job and though that should make me feel safe I feel very scared and very on edge. I am hoping she is just lonely and a bit scared and I hope to be a good neighbour and look out for others like I would hope they'd look out for us. I will speak to my immediate neighbour tomorrow as they are very kind and have expressed they will look after us.

Do you have any safety/security tips?
Blinds are always closed to allow light but no visibility, keys are hidden and not left in locks, we have secure doors and windows, we have ordered sensor flood lights and we live in a road which has a place of work with CCTV which looks over our house and cars. I'm not trying to be unkind to a likely vulnerable woman I am just very nervous! Blush

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MrTrebus · 07/08/2017 22:00

You ok hun? You seem really super nervous is there more of a back story? Have you been burgled before? Change the locks if you've just moved in thats my only advice but also Wine don't let this ruin your new home.

Crunchymum · 07/08/2017 22:07

What sort of things was she asking? Do you think she was potentially trying to find info to assist with burgling you?

Are you sure she was a neighbour? Did you see where she lived?

NeverlandWendy · 07/08/2017 22:08

No! It's my first house we've just moved in, I've never been burgled before but it's one of my worst fears, I usually will never be here alone but I am off work for the summer (guess the job!) so am home alone a lot which is great for getting stuff done but just something about her mannerisms has made me worry, my gut was telling me to keep quiet!

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NeverlandWendy · 07/08/2017 22:10

She only asked when we moved in and was giving graphic detail about her burglary, she told us roughly where she lived and it's isolated where I live on a busy terraced street, I didn't even know her house was there! I'm not sure she was a neighbour, she was lurking with her handbag and smoking on my street which is not where she lives :/ I didn't want to say it but i did feel like she was fishing for info. She might just be scared I want to give her the benefit of the doubt.

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