Once again the dc have come home from school telling me they must do this challenge, Mrs X and Miss Y have both said everyone in the class must do it as they expect it, everyone who turns up in September with the requisite certificate will be rewarded by the school as well etc etc.
Now obviously I want to encourage my dc to read and have done so all their lives (and if it’s relevant, both are excellent readers), but I’m starting to find some of this a bit counter-productive. Ds1 is my main concern. He will be going into Y6 and doesn’t read as much as I’d like. Over the last year or so I’ve had to admit he doesn’t like reading, and it hurts me. As an English graduate/teacher who read to both the dc pretty much from birth and filled the house with books I suppose I assumed they would both love reading as much as I do. But they don’t. Ds 1 did go through a phase of reading a lot but that’s long gone and he doesn’t really read a great deal now. I still read to him at bedtime and he does read some non-fiction, more so in the holidays, and he will devour fucking Wimpy Kid and Tom Gates, but that’s really it, aside from cricket related stuff/magazines/programmes etc.
Ds2 is enjoying the HTTYD series and reads on after I’ve read to him at night. As ds1 devours Wimpy Kid, he will devour Rainbow Magic.
The challenge doesn’t bother ds2 – he will happily read 6 Rainbow Magic books and, I believe, gain little from the experience but will take the certificate happily to school: job done. Ds1 can’t do anymore WK and TG because has read all there is, and struggles with the challenge a lot more. He actually doesn’t want to do it, but is genuinely worried about turning up and not having done it, despite all I have said to reassure him on this.
He has a couple of big science books on the go atm. They are huge and not the type of books you tear through quickly, but he is genuinely interested in them and enjoying reading them. Worse than being big, one of them is not even from the library, so will not count. I have told him that as long as he reads a bit of them everyday he could count them both towards the challenge – the librarians don’t check the boo titles are from the library when they sign them off. I have said we can probably find 3 WKesque books in the library he could use, and that will just leave one other new type of book for him to try. He is happy with my ‘deal’ but aghast at the suggestion of cheating, but equally distraught at the idea of not completing the challenge or reading other books to make up the 6!
AIBU to think he would be a lot better off reading whatever he likes and will probably gain a lot more from what he does end up reading than the shite ds2 will gobble up, yet he could be the one to end up being praised for it!
AIBU for being pissed off with the school for pushing this like it’s the only possible way to show reading ability/enthusiasm when it really isn’t?