I brought my two children out on my own today as my husband was at a golf thing for his mums partner and it was only men invited. My plan was go do some shopping then food out somewhere as a treat. I have a friends babies baptism tomorrow afternoon to which we are all invited so dh said he should be back at 6 to give me a chance to do my tan and nails in peace . My son has done nothing but act up since I left the house this morning. He has kicked and punched me and spat in my face. I literally dragged him home and he nearly toppled over my baby in a tantrum. I rang DH and told him how ds was acting up and I still needed to pick up a pressie and card for the baby before the shops close. DH told me he was going for food and to drop DS there and I can finish what I need to do. I rang him and told him I was nearly there and he goes oh just go straight home il be home in half an hour and you can go back out again. I rang him a few minutes ago as he's still not home and he goes oh I'm only eating now il be back in an hour or so. I told him I was going back to the restaurant to drop ds there and he can take him for a while. DH went mental at me and told me I obviously can't handle two children and we shouldn't have any more even though we planned to have one more next year. He also had a go about how he never goes out ect. He's going out tomorrow night aswell plus he had 3 nights out running and playing golf this week (5 nights in total) too leaving me alone to do bedtime too. I'm feeling like a rubbish parent who always has to be the discipliner.