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Dad on sex offenders register who wants to see son

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Tickle0881 · 04/08/2017 22:39

My lo dad was sentenced in 2013 for attempted kidnap and a sexual act on a young lady for 5 1/2 years, my lo has seen his dad in prison for 2 to 3 hours a month obviously supervised,,, he has now been released and I contacted ss myself as I felt I had no support what so ever, when my husband at the time got arrested not once did I get a visit from ss.....
on speaking to them they decided it would be best to get my ex and his parents on board to sign an agreement saying that he was allowed no contact with my lo unsupervised so it was agreed his parents would supervise....
His probation have said that he is high risk of re offending!!!!!!
The agreement has been broken on the first visit my lo came home originally and said he had stayed overnight with His Nan in the room we now know this isn't true and was infact his dad....
I've phoned ss who have said that if I'm not happy then to stop all contact and for dad to take me to court....
I have stoped contact which hasn't been greeted well but now I feel I've no support from ss and don't know what a judge will say if it gets to court
I really feel ss have let us down at the time my husband did his crime his 2nd one might I say I lived with my 2 teenage girls never once did anyone ask anything about there welfare

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Genghi · 04/08/2017 23:49

If he's a pedophile you won't have any problem at court. Can you get a restraining order? Him lying is a very bad sign.

Queenofthestress · 05/08/2017 00:09

Cafcass is the one that deals with offenders and kids once it's at court, they will examine everything and everyone and tell him to hop on due to the nature of the crime

Birdsgottaf1y · 05/08/2017 01:33

SS can't step in, because it doesn't meet their criteria.

They've told you what you need to do, stop contact and go to Court.

The Court will then decide and enforce the conditions, or he'll lose the right to contact.

I'd question contact being facilitated whilst in prison on sexual offences tbh.

By you forcing him to take you to Court, you will get a break from it and won't have SS investigation etc, which is a strain on everyone. It is the easiest route.

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