To think I should be able to talk to a man on line for more than 24 hours without him talking about my tits and trying to arrange to stay over

[Foslady]

Especially since we've never met!

A mixture now of annoyed with a hint of depressing. I'm no oil painting, and I'm almost 50, but I try and keep myself reasonable. I don't have revealing pictures on my profile but every flaming time I get talking to someone (and believe me it's not that often) within 24 hours I'm told I have big boobs (no shit Sherlock, my back ache and looking in the mirror gives that one away) which then turns into a bad Austin Powers parody. And I'm paying for the bloody privilege of this......

Suppose it makes a change from cock shots.....

It's horrible but it does weed the toads out. As soon as questions arose re "bra size" or "why no photo" I blocked them. And after a few months I found my partner( we've been together nearly ten years). It's hard not to get cynical but keep trying and best of luck!

You're lucky to get to 24 hours

Yabu. It is a great indicator of who is a dick. Block and move on. You havent wasted any time of this jerk.

Thing is Count it seems to happen every bloody time - there has to be one bloke out there that can do this????

YABU, how dare you think you exist as anything other than a vessel for a man's pleasure rather than your own individual person with more feelings than a pair of tits?

I hear you!
It astounds me that men actually ask for this

Been on POF and tinder for a while now, I have actuality said now on my profile that if you expect any cheeky photos to not bother getting in contact. It has helped, except the odd idiot asking

Don't even get me started with the dick pics

And this is why I don't want to try OLD!

Just blocked him on OLD and blocked his number but a message came up on whatsapp - how do I block that? I thought blocking the number did that?

Try Bumble. You (if you're a lady) have to start the convo. I get nothing back. It's depressing and refreshing (change from sex chat openers) in equal measure....

click into the WhatsApp meassage - click the person at the top 'contact info' scrol and block

IShipTomHardy I did this to my online dating profiles. I had made sure the photos were nice (but nothing sexy) anyway but I changed the text from a fun quote to be about my decidedly unsexy interests and hobbies and mentioned that I was looking to date and wouldn't send nudes. I get lots of messages (just not on bumble) and from people actually looking to date.