Asking DH to remove the woman he had an affair with from fb...aibu?
Booboob · 02/08/2017 09:24
DH had an affair whilst married with a young child.... anyway his dw found out, he ended the affair and subsequently his marriage broke down.... zoom forwards 10 years we are now happily married with 2 small children of our own and my 2 step children have a great relationship /family life with us and their mum. Recently I spotted that the woman he had the affair with is friends with him on fb.....
I think this is not acceptable and asked him to remove her for that very reason. He did immediately without any argument but he brought it up last night saying I was unreasonable to have asked him to do so and that he should be allowed to be friends on FB with her.....AIBU?
MargaretTwatyer · 02/08/2017 09:53
I don't think YABU either. If they had remained friends and you were aware of that and he'd been open with you that would be understandable.
But as he has added her recently (I assume) and not been up front about it. You're right to be worried about it, they have form for being untrustworthy.
I think it's disrespectful to your DSC too as I doubt they would welcome her being in contact. YANBU.
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