Dsis was asked to leave work on Monday until 10am Wednesday as she was being suspended whilst they investigate. Her "bad attitude" was sited as the reason.
Three things were raised;-
*she snapped at a fellow colleague, then immediatley apologised and explained she was having a bad day
*she said in a team meeting that she understood why a fellow colleague resigned as they were demoted - her boss told her on monday "you are not entitled to an opinion on this"
*she was alleged to have said that the apprentices should "demand a higher pay" - she didnt, she said the apprentices were very competent and doing everything a general employee was doing
Aside from my opinion or only being able to listen to her side of the story, I feel her boss is going about things in the wrong way.
She has been told to attend a meetinf at 10am wednesday. No official word from them whether it is a disciplinary or an investigation meeting or whatever. She had to ask today for written confirmation of the allegations made. She had to ask today for copies of the Grievance and Disciplinary Policies. She requested an extension on the meeting as she was only sent thw written allegations late today. That has been denied. She has been told that she can bring someone in with her but as the allegations were made by unknown team members she cant ask anyone in her team. The only other people who work there are the CEO and his PA (acting HR) who will be conducting the meeting, and her Line Manager who instigated the whole thing.
Her manager has told her over the telephone today that the outcome of the meeting is likely to be Serious or Gross Misconduct. Her copy of the policy says Gross Misconduct is classed as "theft, criminal damage, other". Vague as fuck.
She is unable to be accompanied by me or our parents as we are all working. She is unable to be accompanied by her boyfriend as he is away. She is unable to be accompanied by a friend as they all have work and/or are travelling.
Ive suggested she ring ACAS first thing in the morning to see what further advice they can give.
I dont feel her boss is doing the right thing. I think she is being bullied out if im honest. She has worked there over 2 years and had one negative comment raised in the six monthly performace meetings they have.
Understandably she has spent the last 48 hours upset and confused. I dont know what I can do but wondered if any of you had any advice?