I am 8.5 mths pg. I split from my partner several months ago.
At the end of January he got the sack for not meeting targets (works in recruitment), after a few weeks he got himself a new job in the same sort of work. 2 weeks ago he got himself sacked from that. when I asked why he said 'the boss was a bitch and it had built up over a period of time'. I pointed out he'd only been there 6 weeks FFS!
anyway, he has bills he agreed to pay, namely the broadband fee as he insisted we needed it, he signed up for an 18 mth contract without consulting me, and i can't afford to pay it.
last month the direct debit bounced, so i have had to pay it or BT were going to cut the phoneline. I live in a village in the middle of nowhere with very little mobile signal and need to be able to call someone if i go into labour!
I wasn't going to get a new car seat as i had one from ds which a friend has been using. ExP said no, his parents wanted to buy something for the baby and i have everything else so they would pay for it. now i have it he's being slow getting me the money.
Then today, when i point out he owes me the broadband fee for the last bill, and the next one is due on 4th April (baby due 9th) and ask what he intends to do about it, I get told that he doesn't know cos he doesn't have a job yet. I asked if he'd signed on and no he hasn't, because he didn't think it was worth it for the few weeks til he gets Paternity leave . He has no money, the direct debit bounced while he was still working so he must be totally skint now, and if this baby is late it could be up to 4 weeks before he can get Paternity Pay (i'm not even sure he'll get it at all as he's not working), and in the meantime he could have at least some money coming in so he can help out.
i am so with him. he's not thinking about anyone but him, the only reason he hasn't done it is he's too proud, he's living 5 mins walk from the Job Centre FFS.
sorry it's long, I just needed to rant!
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EllieK · 27/03/2007 15:45
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