Hoping for someone to share their experiences...
I have been in a relationship with OH for five years. Neither of us want to get married, for various reasons, but we are committed to each other and have just bought a house together. We have lived together for three years previously, but renting. To me, this was a sign of our commitment to each other, because it's such a big investment.
The process of buying was quite stressful, we had an offer on one house fall through, so when we finally completed on our house, it was a big relief. But now we are settled in, I am starting to question our relationship. OH is a lovely man, and for the last five years I have been so sure about what I wanted, but now I have it I'm questioning it. He has done nothing wrong, but I am still finding myself wondering if this is what I want for the rest of my life. It all seems really final, and there are some things that I thought I would do in my life that I know won't happen if things stay as they are.
AIBU to all of a sudden have cold feet? Is this normal? And how do I get over it, because in my head I know I'm really lucky, but my heart is saying something else at the moment