I'm posting because I'm scared and anxious. Ten years ago my first boyfriend gave me chlamydia. He was the only person I'd slept with and lied and said he had been tested. I think I had it for about two months before I got treated as I got horrible symptoms (sorry TMI but discharge and pain during sex). Anyway after two weeks of antibiotics I tried to put it out of my mind and move on. At the time of treatment I remember asking the doctor about fertility and she said to put it out of my mind and it's usually all fine etc and just kind of reassured me but it's never really left me.
I am now married and TTC. We have been having unprotected sex for four months and no luck so far. In the back of my mind I am terrified about my fertility. My husband and I desperately want a family. Every month that we don't get the result we want I panic about any potential damage I have. If I didn't have this history I wouldn't care that it hasn't happened straight away, I know these things can take time, but I can't get this out of my mind. Doctors won't do any tests until we have been TTC for a year. Has anyone ever been in a similar situation and what happened?