I currently work four days a week term time only. I have Mondays off with my little one.
I have been offered a casual job which is relevant to my current role, that id like to take up, as i think it would look great on my cv, I would enjoy, it, And a bit of extra money would be useful (not desperately needed but would be handy for helping pay off my personal credit card, and then eventually a bit for savings/treats) Id potentially be looking at doing a Saturday or Sunday (job starts early so finishes at 2, leaving the rest of the day to spend with husband and lo) every other weekend, the odd week day evening and the odd day in the holidays. This is all on an as and when basis so I decide what hours I can do week by week.
My husband isn't keen. He says I'll be neglecting my daughter! However, I think he is being unreasonable and just doesn't want the responsibility of looking after her on is own. I get her up and dressed every single morning even at weekends, do every single pick up and drop off, most nappy changes, basically all her care. I have asked him time and time again to help out at the weekend but he just likes to lay on the sofa, go to the odd football match now and again or occasionally the pub. He just loves to stay in doors doing nothing! I think it would do him good to have one morning a week where he has to step up and one evening where he has to do bath and bed!
Also, to add, I do all cooking, cleaning, finance, food shop, organising!
He rarely wants to do anything at the weekend so I end up taking my daughter out on my own so again, the new job would give him another change to do something constructive with her, if I'm at home he just leaves it all to me!
Aibu?