We have 2 nights away - DH, dd and I. The first night we're alone. The second day our friends with their child are joining us at our invitation. It's an airbnb. Now DHs colleague wants to stay the first night as DH is doing a colleagues thing in the evening. Its been organised for months so why the colleague is asking now, 2 days before if he can crash - I have no idea. It's only a weekend away and I don't want to have to have to mess around washing sheets on Saturday morning - I want to have a lazy breakfast in my pyjamas with DH and DD, visit the town and be all relaxed when our friends arrive. I don't want to contact the host again and say another person is staying. I want to enioy some peace alone with just us. maybe even have sex I feel unreasonable because DH wants to offer his colleague the room and I often have people at ours to stay. DH says we can tell him to bring his own bedding. AIBU?