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To think this is not a coincidence?

128 replies

Flypaperforarseholes · 25/07/2017 21:42

Partner of 2 years (we don't live together by mutual agreement, but are in an "exclusive" relationship) spends weekends at my house when my children are with their dad. Friday was his last day at work due to a job change. He went out after work for a few drinks, said he'd be a couple of hours. Came back to mine very pissed at 2am. I was a bit annoyed but let it go.
Today, I needed to text from his phone because my battery was dead. In the box at the bottom of the new, blank text, were the words "sexy" "pictures" "send". Am I right in thinking these are words which have been recently typed? He was next to me when I saw this and I pointed it out - he said they're not words he's typed and phones just display random words. I think this is bollocks. Opinions, please?

OP posts:
aaaaargghhhhelpme · 25/07/2017 23:41

Sorry op. Hope you're ok. I don't have anything to add other than yes it's bollocks. He must have typed them. Take care

WeDoNotSow · 25/07/2017 23:43

My top three are 'I', 'The' and 'You'.
He's chatting shit

WatchingFromTheWings · 25/07/2017 23:46

Pants on fire

Thought I could smell smoke. Hmm

He's talking crap. It's the most typed words. Mine are currently 'I, the, ok'.

amermaideindesguise · 25/07/2017 23:47

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TheRealKimmySchmidt63 · 25/07/2017 23:49

Just checked mine too it does put up your most recently used words

2017SoFarSoGood · 25/07/2017 23:51

yes, sorry OP mine are Oh, Yes, I - the three most used words show in that bar.

Waterlemon · 25/07/2017 23:52

I have a samsung my 3 words are " just, leaving, work "

TeslasDeathRay · 25/07/2017 23:55

Nope, not a coincidence. Plus he's already changed his story once from the phone suggesting "random words" to him 'typing them into google".
Tell him to stop insulting your intelligence when he's obviously been caught out.

Hope you're ok. Flowers

Beeziekn33ze · 25/07/2017 23:57

Mine are I Good I'm. Must have an ego problem!

Gemini69 · 25/07/2017 23:57

he's used those words recently OP Flowers

PyongyangKipperbang · 25/07/2017 23:59

He is sexting, and obviously not with you.

So sorry :(

I had a similar situation and got the lies too. Dump him. I didnt and I rue the day.....

toffeeboffin · 26/07/2017 00:00

Does he think you came down in the last fucking shower or what?

toffeeboffin · 26/07/2017 00:01

FWIW mine in the box are: hey, OK, I'll

Crushsick · 26/07/2017 00:02

Recent words here too OP. (Dav, Costa and greggs - coffee addict)

Ltb

crazywriter · 26/07/2017 00:04

Ive checked mine and they come uo with I, Hi, and Hi Kyle. Not sure where the last one came from as i dont know anyone called Kyle...unless it's something from work I've forgotten.

I've also recently updated Android and lost most of my learned phrases. I'm trying to teach it again. But most of the time it comes up with suggestions based on my most frequent word uses.

I'd say he's lying.

CremeFresh · 26/07/2017 00:04

Oh dear , sorry op he's lying and seems to be following the 'script'.
What are you going to do ?

AreWeThereYet000 · 26/07/2017 00:05

Mine are I, yeah, okay.

My internet browser brings up the last few things I've searched e.g. Activities to do on a budget, theme park tickets etc

Not linked at all.

BanjoPier · 26/07/2017 00:16

Mine are "I, Yes, I think" very Descartes, considering 99.9% of my texts relate to 6 year old DD's social life and what my mother needs picking up from the supermarket. I have no life.

PyongyangKipperbang · 26/07/2017 00:20

Isnt there a game where you hit your predictive text 20 times, middle left then right, to see what "story" it tells?

Try that with his phone, but just hitting the middle button. That will tell a story of what he has been up to.

Flypaperforarseholes · 26/07/2017 00:22

He let me check over his messages, nothing untoward but it doesn't take much to delete messages after youve read/sent them.
So fucking frustrating that he won't just admit it, turns it round and tries to make me feel like I'm overreacting. He went home in a huff, all hurt feelings and weary resignation to my unfounded accusations. The prick.

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PyongyangKipperbang · 26/07/2017 00:26

Of course he went home. That way he didnt have to think of yet more lies that clearly werent going to achieve his aim of you shutting the fuck up.

Are you going to get rid?

Ceebs85 · 26/07/2017 00:26

Mine are:

Yeah
I
Haha

He's full of shit. Sorry OP. You are definitely not 'fucking crazy'

PyongyangKipperbang · 26/07/2017 00:27

Did he say "Well if thats what you have decided I am doing then nothing I can say will change your mind...." by any chance?

MeanAger · 26/07/2017 00:27

Well I was about to say to check his phone gallery and iCloud but that chance has gone. He'll have deleted them all as soon as he left your house.

Anyway, you know he has lied. You know what about. You don't need anymore proof. What are you going to do?

Emboo19 · 26/07/2017 00:29

Mine are, I, I'm and yes!! Most often used, I think not the last used.
But it is linked to what I've searched/goggled too. For instance I've been searching and looking for a red dress. When I started typing re...in red dress came up below. It isn't the first words there though, only when I start typing the first few letters.
For it to be the first words on there though, I'd say he's typing them a lot! What does his search engine show as his recent searches?
Does he sext you and ask for pics?