I'm new to this so not sure how it works and I just want advice from other mums or maybe any who have been in similar sitiations!
My and my ex broke up after a awful few months.. he then started harassing me to which I had to get an injunction out on him. I then didn't hear from him or any of his family for 5 weeks.. ive told him to set his arrangments up legally to see my daughter because he could never stixk to what we arranged and he cancelled his child maintence. Now it's my daughter's birthday in 2 weeks and after 5 weeks his family are not in contact tryinf to see her.. but I'm saying no until her dad sorts his arrangments otherwise he will just see her when they have her. He's bad on drugs so im not even comfortable him having her. I was gonna set the arrangments up myself but thought why should i when he can go 5 weeks no contact to even see how she is. Am I wrong in doing this??