im just after some advice please!
A year and a half ago I split with my ex of 4 years, we haven't had any contact at all since then so I don't know anything she's been up to apart from what people have told me and to be honest I don't entertain gossip. my ex has 5 kids and she refused to let me see them when we split which broke my heart but there was nothing I could do, but anyway, today I ran into a mutual friend and she started telling me that she's worried about my exes kids as their mother is drinking and doing hard drugs a lot lately with her new girlfriend, apparently the kids hate the new girlfriend and they're also turning up at school looking dishevelled and dirty. I have no idea wether to believe what I've heard or not, I mean she was never a brilliant mum as far as maternal goes, but she always kept them clean and tidy, she also never touched alcohol and only smoked weed outside in the shed as I didn't agree with it at all. As far as I know social services are already involved so I'm assuming if what she's said is true that SS will be aware? I'm stuck between wanting to make sure the kids are safe and the whole thing being none of my business! What would you do?