To tell a dear friend she might be making a big mistake?

[MargeryFenworthy]

Just that really. A dear friend is in the midst of a life changing move (quite literally) and I fear that it's not the best decision for her. It may well be so for her DH but I worry that she will be isolated, unfulfilled and possibly ultimately resentful: she is leaving behind a great career, support structure and friends for a huge move with a husband who is not always the easiest to live with. Should I voice my concerns? Or am I better to provide discreet support at a distance?

I would ask her how she's feeling because she may well be scared and worried even if she's also excited. These moves are massively life changing and complicated, especially if you have DC.

At least that offers her a safe space to confide any worries and you can offer her support both now and from afar. It doesn't sound as if she will change her mind but having a sympathetic and non judgemental ear may well be appreciated. If she brushes you off you can leave the door open anyway by saying that you're pleased she excited and knows where you are if she gets overwhelmed at any point.