Hello ladies 
wanted to say I'm new to this and could do with a little advice or even a different perspective on things.
So here it is, I have been married since I was 22 I am 27 now and have 2 kids . When I was pregnant with my son last year my husband had a little flirting back and forth with a work mate who lives abroad but they spoke on Skype and zoom meeting. I was unaware of this and went on maternity leave from my work place which gave me a lot of time on my hands, so one night after the birth of our son I started snooping his work laptop and saw a Skype conversation dating back to when I was pregnant. The conversations was in my eyes so over the line, she sent him a picture when she was at the gym saying "I'm working out sweating" bare in mind she is married with a child too. Then my husband replies "I would love to sweat" she then says "I'm at the gym with my husband me and him always sweat" to this he replies "that's not the sweat I'm talking about" wink wink. I may sound crazy right now but the messages ranged from talkin about work to now and then her saying "you make me happy " and him replying I have a soft spot for you and calling her a stunner at times. Honesty we spoke about it my husband and I. However he says it got out of hand and nothing ever happened and it gave him a sense of excitement that someone desired him. The funny thing is she is 10 years older than me and 5 years older than him not even his type, it makes me feel like I don't even know my husband anymore. I have all these doubts in my head I don't trust him and if it was not for my kids I would of left as soon as I saw the messages. I just want to know from you lovely ladies am I being dramatic ?