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AIBU to call in sick for this?

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yorkshapudding · 17/07/2017 07:08

I don't know what to do so hoping someone has some advice.

My periods have always been regular as clockwork, moderately painful and last 5-6 days. However, my last period which finished a week ago, was 11 days long, much heavier and more painful than normal. I felt very weak and exhausted by the end.

Last night I started bleeding again. It's very heavy and I'm passing a lot of clots. I feel nauseous and have cramps but I don't think it can be my period because of the timing. WIBU to call in sick to work and try to get a doctor's appointment as I'm anxious something could be really wrong with me?

Also if I do call in, how much detail do I have to give? My boss is a man in his 60's and very 'old school'.

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cjt110 · 17/07/2017 09:11

Have you got your appointment yet OP?

LisaSimpsonsbff · 17/07/2017 09:11

I suspect GP will tell you to go to A&E - that's what they did when I called them about heavy and painful bleeding. In my case it was a miscarriage (and I knew that) but I think it'll be the same; the GP hasn't got any equipment to scan you or anything so I'm not sure how much they can do for you.

Ginlinessisnexttogodliness · 17/07/2017 09:11

This happened to me about nine years go before I had children.
They couldn't be sure but said it was almost certainly a miscarriage. I had left it a while to get examined etc as I had very heavy periods but this was in a league of its own.

Don't worry about your boss and certainly don't wait for a GP appointment I would go to a and e or ring the number for advice sorry my keyboard has frozen and I can't type numbers

I hope you are ok, this sort of thing is very frightening

yorkshapudding · 17/07/2017 09:19

I can't get through to GP surgery on the phone so I'm going to go to the walk in centre. Thank you all for your help.

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WankYouForTheMusic · 17/07/2017 09:20

As it's leaving you unable to work then no, by definition you would not BU to call in sick. you are sick.

BikeRunSki · 17/07/2017 12:05

How are you yorksha?

Hissy · 17/07/2017 12:56

Another one thinking of you. What is normal for others is not YOUR normal, and this is not YOUR normal either

Hope the Docs goes well.

grumpysquash3 · 18/07/2017 09:03

OP, how did you get on yesterday? Are you any better today?

londonrach · 18/07/2017 09:05

Id go to gp and sit and wait. This isnt normal. Good luck x

SuperFurrySasquatch · 19/07/2017 09:13

Just searched for this thread to find out if you are ok OP. Hope you are well Flowers

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