AIBU?
To think this is cheeky AF
Cheekybintoooo · 16/07/2017 21:03
Long standing close friend has a reputation being flakey. After being the recipient of her pulling out of things one too many times/ignoring me for perceived wrongdoings, I have cooled off from the friendship...
She is now going round telling mutual friends that things are awkward between us be is coming to an event I am hosting (jointly, with mutual friends) in a week - yet has not got in touch with me about it! I really don't want her to come. Just raging!
ChasedByBees · 16/07/2017 21:29
Perhaps she's hoping it'll be less awkward and you can resolve things.
Also it depends on the type of event. If it's a community type event, then regardless of whether youve organised it, she can attend. She shouldn't be split off from other friends because you've cooled things with her.
If it's your birthday party, then YANBU.
ChasedByBees · 16/07/2017 22:28
Ok, sorry for the implication. It is hurtful when that happens.
Tiger - on MN there was a story about a woman and the OP said, 'let's call her Wendy...'. 'Wendy' was trying to separate the OP from her friends and cut her out of her friendship group.
I was just wondering if the event is one that Cheeky's ex-friend would normally attend with other friends but because it's at Cheeky's house, it's difficult for her to go.
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