Just that really, especially when you know they are providing food.
Had friends round last night for a bit of a get together. The first group arrived 45mins after the arranged time and the rest of the guests arrived within 20mins of that.
Aibu to think that this is just bloody rude? Only one couple text to apologise for their lateness, which was for a legitimate reason. I'd been slaving in the kitchen all afternoon and by time they had arrived the food was cold. Don't get me wrong I'm not always super punctual but I appreciate the effort people go to when having guests over and I just think that it's really inconsiderate and selfish to be firstly so late - I'd say up to 15mins would be in the realms of ok, and secondly without so much as a text to apologies and give an eta.