I am fully aware I might be being totally unreasonable but pregnancy means I can be right?
My partners brother is due to be married in January. The wedding is far away from us so without outing myself (think Inverness to Birmingham distance). We've already travelled this distance for the engagement party and will have to do the same come January.
We have a 2 year old and I am due second baby November 5th. This birth might end up with a c section it's undecided yet.
Anyway, the stag do has just been planned for November. It's not a local, down the pub kind of do. It's a weekend away somewhere like Belfast or Germany or Spain way. My issue is the fact that whatever weekend it gets planned for I'll either be due a baby or I'll have a newborn and a 2 year old! It's a huge adjustment and honestly, I'd quite like my partner around to help. I feel bad because he never goes out and I mean never, he's an amazing dad and that's why I want him about! He feels guilty because it's his brother and he feels obliged to attend.
I just feel the stag party maybe could have been a bit nicer and planned it the following month? It's a lot of money and such bad timing and I can't help resenting the fact he might go 
fully aware that's a tad selfish but I have reason to feel this way? No?