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AIBU?

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To knock next door?

6 replies

TrustyPatches · 11/07/2017 22:29

Posted quite a few times about my neighbours on here so I must seem like quite the curtain twitcher Blush

Honestly I'm not (that) interested in other people's lives usually but just looking for a bit of advice on how I can approach this. We've been having an ongoing dispute about their grown up kids putting food in our recycling bin leading to it not being collected (by ongoing dispute I mean we raised the issue and after them being completely rude and aggressive now they avoid us Confused) for the past few months and I've also mentioned in previous posts about them having extremely loud, base-y parties when thier parents are away but we've never complained to them or about them regarding this despite it being completely intolerable levels of noise.

This weekend it looked like thier parents were away and the music started about 7pm, not long after putting my two year old to bed. It got progressively louder over the course of the evening, the noise in our back garden was awful and there was quite a lot of people in the alleyway behind my house running up and down making a fair bit of noise. I told myself I would knock at 11pm if it didn't quiten down by then.

Knocked at 11, explained I had a toddler next door who was being disturbed by the noise and they said they would turn the music down. They didn't. Knocked again at 2am as the music was louder and people were standing in the alley outside our bedroom window screaming and shouting. There was also people in the front smoking pot underneath my daughter's bedroom window. Again they took no notice.

Their parent's cars have reappeared on the drive this evening. I'm still steaming over Saturday night and I might BU but I'm dying to speak to them. My question is what would you say (if anything), given that they haven't spoken to me or my family for a good few months? Would I be right to confront them? I really want to contact the council but my partner thinks IABU!

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AtSea1979 · 11/07/2017 22:32

Contact the council or whoever deals with noise. I would have been ringing them at 5 mins past 11

silkpyjamasallday · 11/07/2017 22:34

Well you can call the police non emergency line for noise going on that late, and they might be more interested (and actually come out and sort it) that there were also teens doing drugs outside a child's open bedroom window. It sounds as if your neighbours are pretty unreasonable people so talking might not make any difference I'm afraid. Do the parents know about the parties?

PovertyJetset · 11/07/2017 22:34

Jeez- tell
Your partner to grow a pair!!

Tapandgo · 11/07/2017 22:35

I'd have called the police while it was going on. Then reported it to the council. If they are regular pains in the bum, going round isn't going to achieve anything.
But you need to judge what is safe to do in your situation.

TrustyPatches · 11/07/2017 22:38

silk I assume so as there was so many people in the house it would be impossible for them to not leave some evidence behind! They've actually done this on quite a few occasions but it's the first time I've knocked. Assuming there will be a next time I'll be calling 101 I think. My partner thinks I'm going to "cause more trouble" between us and them but I don't think we should have to put up with it any more!

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NSEA · 11/07/2017 22:38

Next time call the non emergency police at 11. Don't mess about. Explain its a loud party with unattended teans alcohol and drugs and they will respond.

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