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AIBU?

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Aibu to ask what you look for in a nursery?

39 replies

Wonderponder · 11/07/2017 19:18

My little boy is in a good nursery, but I think I could be looking for more! What would be your nursery (under three) dream list? Aibu to expect too much?

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Oysterbabe · 11/07/2017 20:23

Cheap
Roomy cages

BackforGood · 11/07/2017 20:36

Moving on from UmmAandY's somewhat unrealistic (for UK) Nursery ideal......

It depends a bit what you are after. For childcare, some things become more important than if you are just taking them there 3 mornings a week for socialising and interaction.
Then, you need things like opening times that fit in with your work hours plus commute. You need good communication - for shift changes, and practical things like parking make life so much easier when you are tight for time / stressed at either end of a day at work.

I hope it goes without saying that all Nurseries need loving, caring staff. There is always going to be a balance between what we as parents are willing / able to pay, and what would be ideal in terms of additional staff.

I do think having lots of natural light is important to me (you'd be surprised how many Nurseries have dc in rooms without windows Sad), and lots of opportunities to be outside / use outside space. I also think it's important to have lots of space inside, as, I don't care what anyone says about forest schools and 'no bad weather only wrong clothes - no-one really wants to be outside in sleet / fog / driving rain etc for 9 hours a day, 5 days a week.

Good food prepared by a properly trained cook is a real plus point, rather than expecting one of the staff to pull something together.

I love a Nursery that is really inclusive, but also knows how to support the dc properly and find the additional money it takes to support all those additional needs.

Wonderponder · 11/07/2017 20:39

I think that I'm not being too unreasonable then. I do like at LO current nursery, that they share milestones and learning through an online portal. It's nice to be able to login at work and see his face!!

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ThomasRichard · 11/07/2017 21:08

Grin oysterbabe

Calvinlookingforhobbs · 11/07/2017 21:13

When the staff speak to my kids and not just me!

Wonderponder · 11/07/2017 21:14

oysterbabe I wish cheap- ours is 68 pounds per day!

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TiggyD · 11/07/2017 21:36

A man working there. All nurseries should have at least one.

Wonderponder · 11/07/2017 21:38

I agree. Although I had some very strange looks when I mentioned it!

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TiggyD · 11/07/2017 21:44

And ideally the man who should be working there would be me. Grin

PeppaPigObsession · 11/07/2017 21:58

Calvin I like it when the staff talk to my DD as well.

We go in in the morning and it's "Good morning (DD name) how are we today?" before they've even spoken to me, and at the end of the day "We've done painting today haven't we? And where's your work now? Do you want to show mummy before you go home?"

Leatherboundanddown · 11/07/2017 22:11

I've narrowed it to four but they are:

Low staff turnover. Staff who are happy in their jobs stay longer.

Early opening and latest closing possible. 7.30 - 6 is the longest round here but 6.30 would be better.

Decent home cooked meals but not pushing puddings every day, I hate that.

Ability to park easily.

SoyUnPerdedor2 · 11/07/2017 22:30

Dds nursery is brilliant.
Kids are in different rooms for their ages. 6 month groups until 2. Then a year.

All the toys are age appropriate. Including outside play for each room.

Plenty of bikes, helmets, hoops, balls in different sizes.

Everything is included. Nappies. Food. Snacks.
Puddle suits for getting muddy!

All the rooms have open doors to their outdoor spaces (Unless it's really cold or wet).
The kids wander in/out freely.
They have increasing "activity time" as they get older.
Sitting together for a story. Sitting in small groups to work on colours/counting/letters etc.
The staff know all the kids names and take time to settle each child with an activity on arrival.
Quick 2 minute chat at hometime, to say what they have done during the day.
Ate all her lunch. Really enjoyed playing in the sand. Just a couple of sentences, but it's an important bit of communication when you haven't seen your child all day.

katiekrafter · 11/07/2017 23:35

As a nursery manager, I am encouraged by all these responses, as these are (mostly - we don't have a STEM or STEAM room) what we concentrate on providing.

PeppaPigObsession · 12/07/2017 15:58

Another one.

My DDs nursery rung me today "Can we give MiniPig some Calpol she's a bit off colour and not wanting to take part in the activity?" So I said yes.

An hour later I rung them "How is MiniPig now?" and they were happy to say "oh she's fine, perked up and playing her friend"

So a sensible policy about calpol but also allowing parents to ring up and check up on their child.

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