Me and my husband separated 6 months ago we only just got back in contact on amicable terms, we have been meeting up regularly with the kids he has been to mine and I have been to his. I thought things were going well, until he announced that he had been doing a lot of thinking and since we are both trying to make things work he will move back to the family home this week. I told him it was too soon, and I prefer to continue to work out our issues before we take that plunge because i still think there are some unresolved issues. He basically said I should let him know tonight whether he can move back in, that there is no point in prolonging things if we are trying to reconcile, wasting money running two home's etc . Also if I do not let him move back in, then he will no longer consider a reconciliation, and will make alternate plans. Am I being unreasonable? I really think it's just too soon, we had a horrible break up, whilst I want to give it a go, this ultimatum has ultimately reminded me why our relationship was not working.