To feel under appreciated/undersupported

[cailyaclara]

At both work and home?

I'm having a miserable evening and was wondering if anyone can either snap me out of it or tell me that I'm not an idiot for feeling the way I do.

At work recently I've been made to feel invisible. We had results of a very important nature come through and my colleague was called into see my boss to discuss them/be congratulated. No one has bothered to congratulate me and my role enabled the most marked results of the whole thing which gave us very marketable and profitable outcomes.

Then at home I mentioned that I'd like to celebrate my success. My husband has done nothing.

AIBU? I'm taking myself out to celebrate but I feel totally under appreciated and undersupported.

Was it just you and this co worked working on this project? If so YANBU. If it was a group thing and it's a case of she did most of the leg work then YABU

When did you tell DH you wanted to celebrate? Tonight? Maybe he's planning something. If DH came home and said he want to celebrate I'd congratulate him but I work 12 hour days and have a house and a DD to think about so I wouldn't just throw everything down and run out for a bottle of champagne but id pick one up the next day iyswim

Myself and my colleague worked equally on this, which is why it's grated on me. Husband has gone out to the gym...
The wine bottle is my friend tonight.

And, yes. It was just the two of us working on it.