I've been seeing my OH for just over a year and we're at the stage where we've agreed to let the kids know.
His kids have guessed that he has a GF (they told/asked him) and he hasn't denied it and I've now told mine. Inadvertently his children and I have met on numerous occasions, enough to hold a conversation and he's met mine and been around to "help" with kids gadgets etc when I don't know what to do with them!
He said he would be telling the kids (who in turn would no doubt tell the ex) when he returned from a work trip - nearly a month later and he's still not had the conversation with them. All his extended family know (I've met some) along with his friends and work colleagues.
He says he's committed to the relationship but it's "difficult, the ex would make life difficult, not been the right time", and that's why he's not yet told them.
We're still happy to keep seeing one another without our kids and not co-joining the families on days out etc.
AIBU expecting him to take this step as for some reason, this is now important to me?