Tired, a bit hungover & feeling pissed off.
Big family do last night, lots of DH family staying locally. During evening conversations DH arranged for some of them staying at DSIL to come over to ours for brunch this morning. Last minute & on top of a few other things to sort out but lovely opportunity to see more of family & for our DSx3 to see them.
So, bed at 2am last night & up I get at 7am with kids, tidy/get kitchen ready and am in supermarket 10am, while DH still in bed, to quickly get food & coffee etc for 13 people & before they arrive at 11.30. Have message conversation with SIL just before I leave to confirm times etc.
As I'm loading trolley load of lovely brunch stuff into car I get a text message from SIL at 10:50 to say there's a change of plans & they're eating at hers as hungry & they'll 'come for a brew in a bit'.
Had a bit of a flip out about it to (not at) DH when I got home but didn't say anything to anyone else. Family arrive later, have a brew, play with kids.
Food will get eaten, it's now in the freezer - it's the lack of awareness of time that went into preparing for a big meal that they cancelled with 45 mins notice & without any hint of apology that's irritated me. They're all couples, no kids.
Would you say something or just leave it & be more cautious next time? Just one of those things? Feeling like a bit of a doormat but it could be the lack of sleep & nagging shoulder pain making it all feel crappy.
DSs are aged between 5 & 10, DH & I both work full time, we're selling house & surveyor & buyers coming round this week - so lots to do. My time feels limited & precious at the moment so i think I'm just feeling frustrated over time wasted when I could have been either in bed/on sofa or sorting out other stuff.