..I'm starting to feel threatened by my ex.
He works shifts but does have a rota but never arranges contact. He does see him on average one night every 8 days but it's never for more than one night.
I am moving soon and he doesn't want me to move. He says he's going to court to stop me. I would be moving nearer him and he has a car so I will enjoy his efforts.
He introduced a girlfriend to our Son without me knowing who she was but always demands to know who 'is around his son'. If I ask him to give me a break he explains that he works full time and I 'don't work' eventhough I work part time and have full responsibility of our Son.
He always has something negative to say about my parenting 'why are his clothes dirty, is THAT what he's eating for dinner'. etc
I have out up with far too much. He just sees his Son when he feels like it, insults me, tries to stop me doing anything. I am a social worker and he slanders my name saying I'm a bad Mum. truth is he is always out of work, never made anything of his life and he's incredibly jealous and resentful that I left him and have achieved so much.
I have no idea what his rights are, so idea how to bring back control and stop him being so involved in my life. AIBU to think he's a grade A jerk and how do I stop him trying to control my life and threatening me?
He has my mobile numb er and needs it to arrange contact.