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Chicken pox on a plane

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parmavioletmartini · 01/07/2017 06:14

I kind of know I'm not being unreasonable but I am unbelievably shocked.

A friend is on holiday with her toddler and she has developed chicken pox. Diagnosed yesterday and they are still going to fly back on Saturday. I had assumed that there was no way an airline would let you fly.

Having had a mother who traveled back and forth from Spain between rounds of chemotherapy I find it appalling. When I mentioned this to her she said that's the risk you take when you travel! Confused

I know it's intrinsically none of my business, but I feel she's potentially putting lives at risk. But AIBU to feel annoyed.

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ThatsNotMyToddler · 01/07/2017 06:20

If the child is obviously 'poxy' they may not be allowed through check-in. Airlines are quite hot on this kind of thing ime

user1497480444 · 01/07/2017 06:23

she probably won't still be infectious by then

insancerre · 01/07/2017 06:24

They won't be infectious by Saturday

AndNowItIsSeven · 01/07/2017 06:27

Yes they will you are infectious until scanned about a week.

PetalMettle · 01/07/2017 06:29

You're infectious until they have scabbed over which wint have happened in 2 days
No OP yanbu. May well be young babies on flight for whom it's very dangerous Too

insancerre · 01/07/2017 06:33

By Saturday I assumed she meant next Saturday not today
The official guidelines say 5 days from the first spot so 7 days is plenty

Ameliablue · 01/07/2017 06:34

Saturday as in today?

lastnightiwenttomanderley · 01/07/2017 06:36

We got stuck overseas after DS got chickenpox the day before we were due to fly home. Was more than a week later that we were issued a fit to fly note.

She might decide to chance it and conceal the spit's but this is irresponsible at best and life threatenin at worst.

PetalMettle · 01/07/2017 06:37

Oh I see. Well yes if it's next week she should be fine, although the guidelines are about scabbing rather than time period - it's just that 5-6 days is usual for scabbing. If they go infected for instance it could be longer

parmavioletmartini · 01/07/2017 06:59

Yes Saturday as in today.

Sorry this week has run away from me! Blush

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insancerre · 01/07/2017 07:05

I'm that case then no way should they fly

AwaywiththePixies27 · 01/07/2017 07:07

Completely selfish of her. Angry

A friend of mines DC has just had a stay in hospital for IV ABs and then had to have surgery to drain their CP spots as they'd got infected on top of the actual CP virus. Poor wee lamb had been right through the mill lately with their health and didnt have a break to build their immune system back up in time for whatever hit them next.

If it can affect a toddler that badly think how badly it can affect someone on chemo.

Theworldisfullofidiots · 01/07/2017 07:18

When my dd was little we were not allowed to fly (only flying to Scotland) when she was recovering from chicken pox. She was scabby but no longer infectious. I would be surprised if they would be allowed to fly.

QueenofLouisiana · 01/07/2017 07:18

When I caught CP the dr was fairly sure it was on a plane a few weeks earlier. I was 20 and had so many spots in places I didn't think you could get spots. I came very close to missing my final uni exams and deadlines for essays as I was unable to fly home to complete them (was visiting my father who lives in Australia).
Not life threatening (as it could be for others) but a massive PITA. Choosing to do that is so selfish. Being unable to fly and the associated costs would be covered by travel insurance surely?

Kentnurse2015 · 01/07/2017 07:20

Is she aware they won't let her fly?!

Ferlander · 01/07/2017 07:23

Always astounds me how people see chickenpox as a mild illness and others feel it is lucky to get it when they're young and 'get it out of the way'.

Yes it can be mild but in others it can be serious.

Chickenpox caused my child to have a stroke. Google chickenpox and stroke in children.

Your friend is being incredibly selfish. Though I think if the airline sees the child is unwell there's a chance they'll stop them from flying.

LadyPenelope68 · 01/07/2017 07:25

Has she been told she can fly? If she's been diagnosed by a doctor, they will say they can't fly and you have to go back and get a certificate that says you are fit to fly. If she's just going to chance it, hopefully airline staff will notice and then they'll refuse her return travel. Fee it's refused in those circumstances then her insurance won't cover a return flight cost either!

parmavioletmartini · 01/07/2017 07:25

She's hoping they wont notice. Apparently he dosnt have many spots on his face just on his body.

We have a group chat and she's on her way to the airport now. Wants us to wish her luck Shock

She's quite selfish anyway but this is just crazy I'm so shocked.

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Keepingupwiththejonesys · 01/07/2017 07:30

I do think think she's being very selfish and I totally get the comments but...just for the flip side. Where is she meant to go if she doesn't fly home? As in, what if they literally have no money to stay somewhere for longer etc

parmavioletmartini · 01/07/2017 07:33

Well travel insurance would pay for accommodation and new flights in these circumstances I would have thought.

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SilverDragonfly1 · 01/07/2017 07:33

I don't think Samuel L. Jackson will be signing up to this sequel.

(Sorry!)

Keepingupwiththejonesys · 01/07/2017 07:37

What I mean is, coz.I genuinely don't know (havent been abroad in around 7 years) does insurance.cover things like this?

FrancisCrawford · 01/07/2017 07:37

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Keepingupwiththejonesys · 01/07/2017 07:39

Oh x post. If that would happen then she's being hugely unreasonable. I just wondered coz when we plan to holiday abroad it will take us a good year to save for the holiday and there's no way we'd afford to stay another week. We'd obviously have travel insurance though.

Keepingupwiththejonesys · 01/07/2017 07:41

Her comment about 'its what you risk when you fly' is ridiculous too. People don't expect to be flying with people who have contagious illnesses

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