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Break up looms ...

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Gamesetandmatch1 · 30/06/2017 20:11

I have been seeing man for 6 months.
I am 30s. He has two kids I have 1. Been happy and enjoying spending time with him.hes divorced ( a litter older than me ). We have Booked hols together / he says he loves me / talks about us long term. Anyway one niggle is that I want to be married at some point. No rush or anything but after years of being with a partner . When I discuss if he'll ever marry again he says " it's not something i think about now and that he " may or
May not consider marriage again" I asked if he think he'd change his mind after years to come. He says he's unsure. I have discussed it a few times with him n got v non commital reply . Last night it turned into a row . I was called insure and says he may wanna break up and is ignoring me . So sad. Any words of wisdom? I know 6 months is early to discuss this but I feel in 30s it's kinda work thing one discusses. I'm not running to buy rings I just would like to know that option is available in future after years of bf/ gf.

OP posts:
gleam · 01/07/2017 19:36

@Groupie123, yes it was very sad. She wanted marriage and children but wanted to be married first. I lost touch with her but I hope it happened for her. She would have made a lovely mother.

@Game, sorry it's worked out this way for you.

PeaFaceMcgee · 01/07/2017 23:08

Erm, why do you have to be married to have commitment, wear fancy dresses and go to posh venues? Are you in a Jane Austen novel? Wink

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