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To be very cross that school's incompetence may have made DS ill?

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user1498726699 · 29/06/2017 10:56

DS's year had a mini sports day on Tuesday. Parents were invited to spectate in the afternoon so DH and I went along. I noticed that drinks were not brought outside for DC (which has happened before so I had brought one with me) so tried to get DS to drink the bottle of water I brought but he was worried he would get told off so only took a few sips. This was a 2 hour event with no breaks. It wasn't hot but very overcast and sweaty. DS's hair was soaking. I went to the shop and left DH to wait for DS to come out afterwards.

On the way home with DH, DS said that noise/talking was annoying him as his brain hurt. DH put it down to lots of jumping around, gave him a drink/snack and told DS to lay down for a rest. He took himself off to bed and conked out very uncharacteristically! I woke him later as I was worried and he was very upset that his 'brain was hurting' and his body wouldn't work. He was clammy, and I realised that he was probably dehydrated. He then told us that he had not had a chance to drink his breaktime drink as some of the DC were chosen to practice for the afternoon event so he had spent most of the morning running around too. I asked if they were offered water and he said no. The only drink they were offered was after the afternoon event just before hometime when they were told to have a drink after they got changed. So DS did almost 4 hours of quite vigorous exercise with only his breakfast juice at home, a small cup of water at lunchtime, and a few gulps of water from the bottle I took with me.

DCs are only 6/7. Surely it is irresponsible of the school to not make sure small DC are hydrated during sports events in June?

I had to spend Tuesday night trying to get Dioralyte down DS (big battle as he hates it) and he had a high temp for most of yesterday with headache and lethargy so was off school. He is recovered today and has gone to school with a note that consideration should be given to this at future sports events.

AIBU to think this could have been preventable?

OP posts:
SnickersWasAHorse · 02/07/2017 08:43

I've just had a pint of tap water.
However I now remember that I filter my water as I don't like the taste of unfiltered.
Any opinions on filtered tap water need a proper User name?

SnickersWasAHorse · 02/07/2017 08:44

How do you know it's the same 'user', No if she had a different name? Not that I doubt you.

nolongersurprised · 02/07/2017 08:48

Because she had the same theory about water not rehydrating as it passed straight through the kidneys and squash being much better. And the same theory about creek water etc.

Surely there can't be two of them??

SnickersWasAHorse · 02/07/2017 08:50

I see. It's a real bugbear isn't it.
She's from the squash and cordial marketing body for sure.

nolongersurprised · 02/07/2017 08:58

Apparently everyone knows that water doesn't hydrate healthy children sitting in a class at school but it's been suppressed because the appropriate fluid - squash - would make more of a mess if it upended.

Bumdishcloths · 02/07/2017 09:02

I was kind of on board with OP re the school - they should have provided fluids. HOWEVER - parents did not rehydrate child when home. And OP 'likes him to have a tan' so doesn't use sunscreen unless they're at the beach all day? Encouraging sun damage to your child's skin is thoroughly bizarre.

Am ignoring all the 'water is toxic' bollocks because, well, bollocks really Hmm

OfficerVanHalen · 02/07/2017 09:03

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Message withdrawn at poster's request.

nolongersurprised · 02/07/2017 09:05

My DH ran a marathon today and only drank water afterwards. They hand out water after the event and the rehydration stuff offered was watered.

He has been quiet the last hour or so so I was wondering if he'd died but he seems fine. Luckily he's drinking a beer so it's probably saved his life by warding off exploding cells.

nolongersurprised · 02/07/2017 09:06

Sorry - rehydration stuff was in plastic cups and warm!

SnickersWasAHorse · 02/07/2017 12:15

Look at what I'm drinking User. I've also had tap water today. It's a wonder I haven't exploded.

To be very cross that school's incompetence may have made DS ill?
AndTakeYourHorseWithYou · 02/07/2017 12:37

well, I teach it, and coach students for Oxbridge applications in it, so no, I would say it went very well indeed for me

Hah! You do fucking not.

user1497480444 · 02/07/2017 13:27

Hah! You do fucking not.

absolutly I do, and from your contributions here, and mine, it is very clear that I understand this issue far far better than you do.

I am not telling you anything surprising, or controversial, or new, or difficult, or advanced.

just simple, straight forward, well known, widely taught scientific facts.

AndTakeYourHorseWithYou · 02/07/2017 13:45

Yes dear. Of course, dear. Time for your meds, dear? Be sure you take them with some squash and not that toxic water, won't you dear?

TabascoToastie · 02/07/2017 16:05

Okay user then find one single website (other than flat earth "cure cancer with crystals" type ones) or journal article or article by a doctor stating that water is a toxin, that drinking water is dangerous, and that stream water has a different water potential to bottled water.

Literally, one single one. If it's so uncontroversial and well-known and in every single textbook there should be thousands.

And not textbooks just explaining what osmosis is or what water potential is, explicitly stating "water is a toxin" or "humans should not drink water" or "bottled water has a different water potential to stream water."

You won't, because absolutely no one agrees with you. It's a bit weird insisting on pushing a fringe theory, but it's very weird insisting an obscure fringe believe is widely accepted when it's obviously not.

Assuming User is not a bored troll, obviously they have gotten hold of some very basic biological facts from somewhere and completely misunderstood them. For example it sounds like you maybe heard the phrase "water potential" somewhere, learned that the liquid in blood is not pure water, and came an assumption.

No one is questioning the basic facts about water and water potential, just your own misunderstanding of them.

Are you a child or teenager? This sounds very much like the kind of simplistic ideas and assumptions I would have doggedly stuck to as a smarty pants middle schooler.

HorridHenryrule · 02/07/2017 19:24

This has to be the most boring thread I have ever read. You all still find time to talk shit and argue over rubbish. Are you people bored and thought fuck it I'll intellectualise drinking water. Lets see who has the biggest flaps down below.

Oly5 · 02/07/2017 19:55

I'm with you and would be cross and addressing it too. How hard is it to have cups of water on sports day or let them bring a bottle??

SnickersWasAHorse · 02/07/2017 20:08

How hard is it to have cups of water on sports day

Water? Are you trying to kill them all. If you let children drink water they explode, have you learned nothing from this thread?

Ginandplatonic · 03/07/2017 01:16

This has to be the most boring thread I have ever read

And yet here you are Horrid, not just reading it but posting on it.

Besides I disagree, between your "My DP is an osteopath, so I'm an expert on physiology", and UserWhatever's "Water is a toxin, it's basic biology innit" this is an excellent thread.

TabascoToastie · 03/07/2017 01:33

Obviously you missed last week's episode of Inside A&E, Snickers! I'm attaching a clip here.

Shocking, and so sad that they couldn't save that poor woman. A real lack of awareness of something I've read is actually one of the leading causes of deaths amongst witches (#3 after burning at the stake and death by falling houses).

DailyMailReadersAreThick · 03/07/2017 01:57

HorridHenryrule your husband found time to train in bullshit and you found time to post about it, so I don't think you have the high ground love.

Booboo66 · 03/07/2017 04:47

The headache is probably more down to your refusal to provide a hat Hmm that's more likely to cause heat exhaustion symptoms that a couple of hours without water.

HorridHenryrule · 03/07/2017 05:49

Besides I disagree, between your "My DP is an osteopath, so I'm an expert on physiology", and UserWhatever's "Water is a toxin, it's basic biology innit" this is an excellent thread.

Blah Blah Blah get a life. Have you ever heard of a bit of banter I don't take myself seriously at all. You obviously have something to prove if you have time to spout more shit.

HorridHenryrule · 03/07/2017 05:50

HorridHenryrule your husband found time to train in bullshit and you found time to post about it, so I don't think you have the high ground love.

You must be a bundle of laughs in your house.

QuestionableMouse · 03/07/2017 06:31

Well this thread is a riot.

User, where do the toxins in water go when you add squash?

nolongersurprised · 03/07/2017 06:47

I am imaging the conversation with userwith her students :

"Water is terribly toxic to blood cells. It causes them to explode causing an unusual haemolysis that isn't described in any text books or by any haematologists and that doesn't cause blood film changes, blood in the urine or jaundice. However, this is a well known, scientifically proven fact that those of you how study medicine at your Oxbridge unis will never ever hear of again. However it is true because I say so and because of water potential.

In order to prevent cells from exploding , water, when swallowed, manages to avoid entering the intravascular circulation from the gut lumen and is excreted, largely unchanged, by the kidneys. This process is called xyz and is achieved by 123

xyz and 123 still to be adequately described by user.