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To ask for help with my budget and family meals?

27 replies

snoopypoodle · 27/06/2017 11:41

Things have been v tight for us recently this week I have £5.23 left until I get paid at the end of this month... Luckily we've managed to scrape and have enough food in house and petrol in car to be able to make do.

I work pt and I cover my car running costs, mobile phone, gas and electric and groceries. DP covers everything else.

There's us 2, DS (2.5) and DDog .

After paying all the bills (have an overdue on I need to pay this month) I will have £140 left over for all groceries and dog food.... It's only going to be so tight this month as work messed up my wages.

With that budget we need to provide (for the whole month):

  • dinners
  • lunch for DP for work
  • dog food (dry and cans)
  • snacks for DS throughout the day (lunches too etc) fruit, yogurts etc
  • snacks for me for my break at work (only need snacks as work pt and just need to top up)
  • essentials like toilet paper, shower gel, toothpaste etc

We already don't buy sugary drinks/juice etc we have a Brita water filter and stocked up on the replacement filters so drink filtered tap water. Have tea/coffee etc stocked up.

Im going to stop buying any extras when I'm out and about (snacks/coffees etc) as I realised I probably spend more than I should on these.

I'm probably going to do most of my shopping at Aldi/Lidl.

So I turn to you mumsnetters for help and ideas to see if it's possible to survive on this?

OP posts:
Kimchipancakes · 27/06/2017 12:03

Can the dogs be switched to just dry rather then cans too? That will be cheaper.
Embrace your veggie side! When we're having a cheap month, lots of lentil dhal, cheap pasta with sauce (Tesco and im pretty sure Lidl do a packet of spaghetti for about 20p), for lunch leftovers from day before or just a sandwich with a basic cheese or tomato filling. Jacket potatoes or mashed potato etc very cheap. Have you got anything left over in your cupboards like cans of tomato or rice etc?

I find www.budgetbytes.com good for meal ideas, it's based in USA so all dollars, but good for ideas don't have to follow it to the letter.

cathf · 27/06/2017 12:12

Is that £140 for groceries/dog food etc to last you to the end of this month ie June?
If that's the case, it should easily be do-able, I would have thought.
I have a Tesco delivery due today for £64 which will cover food and essentials for 3 adults and two children (inc packed lunches) up until Sunday, when I will have another delivery.
I am not one of those people who can feed 20 adults on £10 a week, so I wonder if I have misunderstood?

GreenFingersWouldBeHandy · 27/06/2017 12:13

^ Pretty much what Kimchi has said. Embrace Lidl! And veggies/pasta/tinned toms. The Co-Op often have a frozen food offer on for fiver which is pretty good for what you get.

Sandwiches for DP at lunch plus fruit/crisps?

Instant noodles are a great cheap lunch if you're home at the weekend and if you can get to an Asian supermarket/shop, much cheaper than supermarkets. Plus you can get cheap packet soups you can add chopped veg to, to bulk them out a bit and eat with bread/toast.

Stir-fries are pretty cheap to make and a different flavour from pasta and sauce if you get bored of it. Good luck!

Kimchipancakes · 27/06/2017 12:14

5poiund till the end of this month and the 140 is how I read it cathf.

MTBMummy · 27/06/2017 12:16

We cook on a budget, I stock up on frozen veggies and meat and then cook bigger meals in the slow cooker which I then freeze the extras in single portions (mainly so greedy DH doesn't eat a meal for 3 on his own)

Visit your local Iceland, they're great, lots of own brand sausages/chicken/mince add various frozen veg and tinned tomatoes, and then serve with pasta/rice and you can make a little budget stretch a long way.

cathf · 27/06/2017 12:18

Ah, that makes more sense!
So £5 until Friday, then £140 to last the whole of July?
I thought panicking about only having £140 to last three days was strange, even by MN standards!

cathf · 27/06/2017 12:28

To get back to the OP, I am also on a budget, and I have found that online shopping deliveries every five days have actually saved me money (I have delivery saver).
I will get an order tonight to last me dinner tonight, then every meal until Sunday dinner, by which time I will have had another delivery.
I find that by doing that, you are never that far away from your next 'shop' meaning less popping out for bits and bobs and spending £10-£15 each time.
Although I do shop in Lidl, I find that the best money-savers are Tesco Value range, which is my default go-to for everything available in the range, apart from one or two bits and bobs.
Meal plan, use up everything you have left over, make your own (cheap) cakes and bakes rather than buying, limit snacking.
With a 2.5 year old, you should be able to control what your DC eats a lot easier than my 10 and 13 year olds!
Having said all that, £140 does sound very tight to me - I would divide it into weekly amounts of £35, ringfence an amount for dog food and take it from there.
I find Home Bargains a godsend for toilet rolls, shampoo, toothpaste etc by the way.

user98765797837 · 27/06/2017 12:34

pasta, rice and potatos are your friend.

my kids love pasta, tinned tomatos and ham (they prefer smoked). Usually we have this at the end of the week as ds has the ham in his sandwiches all week then whats left over on friday goes in the pasta. If we have any we throw in onions and garlic but the smoked ham flavours the tomatos. If we have any cheese we throw a bit of that on top too.

a pack of mince beef.... we buy the big tray and split into 2-3 portions and freeze.... each portion will do a meal.... cottage/shepherds pie, spaghetti bolognese, chilli. Bulk out with grated carrot to make it go further.

bananas usually work out cheaper to buy the loose ones rather than ones in a pack. Aldi also have good deals on some fruits. peaches ar 49p a pack at the moment, I think plums are too... worth looking to see whats on offer.

my husband never buys food at work...he takes his meals with him. He will take sandwich, crisps, fruit, cereal bar and a flask of tea.

DOG... dry is cheaper, but some dogs won't eat it without the meat. How about cutting how much wet meat is put in with the dry... for eg...if at the moment he is having half a tin with each meal,cut it to 1/4 a can with each meal and it will last twice as long.... but stick a few extra dry biscuits in there to make up for it. Or if he doesn't suffer with his tummy you could try a cheaper brand... We tried this when we were struggling and the dog actually did better on the cheaper one which worked out.

K1092902 · 27/06/2017 12:35

Swap to dry dog food. It's £5 for 10kg sack. I have 4 dogs (2 GShephard and 2x French bulldogs) and we get by on 3/4 sacks a month. So that's £20.

On pay day go and get the bulk of a monthly shop- you get a huge tray of chicken breasts in Iceland for £10 and it could easily make a week, even 2 weeks depending how much you eat, of meals. It's 2kg worth and the pack I have at the moment has about 10 in there.

With chicken you could make:
-Chicken curry: chopped tomatoes, Chicken, curry powder, onion and pepper (you could even skip these). You buy chopped tomatoes for about 10p and curry powder under £1. If you make a big batch it could do for 2x teas and 2x lunches for you and your DH.
-Chicken stir fry. Cheap noodles, cheap stir fry veg and a stir fry sauce. You can get all these in ALDI and for a big pan your looking at again 2x teas and 2x lunches for you and your DH

Buy a big sack of pasta and pasta sauces. Lots of frozen veg and cheese and you could make all different pasta bakes.

Cleaning stuff- when things have been right for us instead of buying cleaning sprays I just but a big bottle of bleach and water that down into all cleaning spray bottles and use it to mop the floors. And another one with fairy liquid in it.

Go on pay day and spend £100 on a shop on dog food and main bits for the family monthly shop. You then have £10 a week to spend on fresh stuff.

Groupie123 · 27/06/2017 12:39

Cook from scratch. Switch to UHT long life milk. Tinned or frozen fruit and veg. Get nuts and dried beans/rice/flour/yoghurt etc from ethnic/Indian stores as much cheaper.

Tippexy · 27/06/2017 12:55

Does DH have any spare cash?

EJREsMum · 27/06/2017 12:58

Aldi is absolutely brilliant! I do a once a month 'Big' shop which costs about £70. In this I'll get:
4x Bread
Croissants
4xbags of pasta
2x box of boil in the bag rice
Cooking sauces
Crisps
Biscuits
All fruit and veg
2xbags of potatoes
Frozen bits
Ham
Butter
Milk
Eggs
Yogurts for DS (40p for 12 I think)
And any other bits and bobs we need.

Then I'll top it up at the end of the month which comes to about £30. Freeze all the bread and meat. Make a big batch of bolognese, separate into meals and freeze. Make a big batch of curry, separate and freeze. By doing this you'll know how many meals you've got.

Also when I was struggling I found it was easy to make a meal plan for dinners, write it out and stick it on the fridge. I'd work out how many chicken breasts, how many mince meats etc. I would need until next getting money and this would mean I wasn't over spending or wasting.

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EJREsMum · 27/06/2017 13:03

Also go to Savers for toiletries, they sell alberto balsam shampoo and conditioner for £1 or they always do the massive bottles of treseme on sale for £2.50 and they will easily last a month or 2. Toothpaste a £1 deodorant is £1 razors £1

BiddyPop · 27/06/2017 13:35

Whatever fruit and veg are on the super 6 offers, get those for the week. So Aldi in Ireland this week has peaches, potatoes, carrot/parsnip mix, mangetout, grapefruit and apples, while Lidl had romaine lettuce, plums and corn on the cob the first half of the week with broccoli, onions and sweet potatoes for the second half.

Eggs are very versatile - a Spanish omlette using up small bits of veg and leftovers, with some cheese, is a decent dinner on warm evenings.

Lidl's double packs of bacon lardons are very versatile too - into a plain tomato sauce with pasta; bake with baby potatoes, tomato and chilli sauce (and chorizo); with a baked potato and some grated cheese; into a quiche with some onion or leeks; make a carbonara by frying lardons and an onion, using an egg and some cream for the sauce with some pasta; add to scrambled eggs or Spanish omlette; etc. If you are frying them to cook, use a dry pan as the heat will render out the bacon fat itself as a cooking fat so you don't need extra oil.

Make 1 big batch of spaghetti bolognaise sauce and freeze it in portions to use maybe once a week or fortnight. If doing a big batch, use less mince meat, and add grated carrots, finely chopped mushrooms, courgette, maybe some lentils or butternut squash etc, to bulk it out. I tend to do a batch using about 700g mince, 3/4 carrots, a whole courgette, good handful of mushrooms, maybe half a red pepper - and I chop all those very finely in the mini food processor. I tend to get roughly 3-4 meals for our family of 3 from that (DD11). You can also use some of that sauce to make a lasagna, to change it up one day - just drain off as much liquid as possible.

Other options for bulk dishes would be:
Shepherd's pie - adding grated carrot, grated courgette and peas (lentils also good here) to the mince.
Smoked fish and broccoli pie - poach the fish in milk to cook it and use that milk to make a white sauce, chop broc into florets, flake the fish, put both in ovenproof dish and cover with white sauce, top with mashed potato and a scattering of breadcrumbs and grated (strong) cheddar for a crispy top.
Beef or lamb curry using more stewing cuts of meat - needing long slow cooking and including some veg like butternut squash, aubergine, cauliflower, tomatoes, chickpeas etc in big chunks.

Do one of the famous MN Chickens! Often larger chickens are cheaper by weight than smaller ones so buy the one that works out cheapest per kg. (Perhaps buy 2 to cook at the same time). Roast or pot roast or slow cook on day 1 and have a roast dinner. Take the rest of the meat off the bones. Make stock with the bones and the peelings of the veg you used for dinner (carrots, onions, celery heads etc are all great for this as long as they were clean) and a few herbs if you have them (fresh or dried are fine). Make a curry or a stir fry with some leftovers next day, which can be great to use up small bits of different types of veg. Use the stock for soup or base of sauces - can be frozen. Freeze any more leftover chicken in portions suitable for your uses. Handy for loads of different easy meals like quesidillas or fajitas, adding a handful to a Spanish omlette or quiche, sandwiches, stir fry (with noodles or rice), or chicken and mushrooms in a creamy sauce (use the stock) with pasta/rice/mash.

You can do similar with a large joint of bacon - nice dinner, bits for macaroni cheese (I add loads of veg and bacon to mine) and any leftovers can be frozen to make pasta bake another night, sandwich filling, fry slices to serve with a fried egg and chips/boiled potato. If it's not too salty (and I haven't cooked cabbage in it!), I sometimes use the cooking water to make "ham and pea soup" by just adding frozen peas after I've taken out the bacon, and then blitzing in the food processor.

Use any local greengrocer or butcher etc for seasonal ingredients (tend to be cheaper) or less popular cuts of meat.

If you get a big sack of potatoes rather than smaller bags, they are generally cheaper overall (price per kg is what you need to check). Things like baked potatoes, using leftover mash fried up with an onion as hash, or reheated in the oven with milk, onion and peas if doing an oven dinner, etc. Make your own potato wedges and chips.

A bag of oats is also great - for breakfast porridge or smoothies, to make flapjacks for work lunch and home treats, and to bulk out things like shepherd's pie meat mix.

For work lunches, if something more than a sandwich and fruit is needed, get the bulk packs of chocolate bars - they are a bit cheaper (although often smaller) but they will give enough of a treat to entice you not to run to the shops and spend loads. They're bigger than funsize, but slightly smaller than single bars at the till - which is also healthier for you, but should be enough to sustain.

We don't have pets, but DMIL gets the Aldi tins for her dog and they are great, and only 29c each.

Can you bake? As a way to reduce the amount of bread you buy, and treats (buns, cakes, cookies etc)? Wraps rather than bread could also be good for some lunches, or leftovers from the previous day's dinner to heat in a microwave if you have access. Soup in a flask. etc

snoopypoodle · 27/06/2017 14:03

Thank you for all the ideas!
I will be doing a meal plan and shopping list to know where to start on payday.
I usually get the tinned dog food from Aldi so I think will be ok there, my dog is fussy with the dry food but i trick her sometimes by adding our leftovers to it e.g. Dry food, bit of rice mixed in and some leftover meats that we won't have if they're no good the next day so hoping she'll be ok.

Love the idea of cooking in big batches and freezing. Will have to give that a go.
Also great idea as my DP sounds like yours MTB

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DisorderedAllsorts · 27/06/2017 14:04

Everything everybody has said above plus can you do a car boot sale to raise extra cash?

K1092902 · 27/06/2017 14:15

I do think you need to 're think finances. Can you not have a joint account that all joint expenses come from and whatever is left is split two ways? You are married. It's no longer about "mine and your" money it's about OUR money

Grenoble124 · 27/06/2017 14:18

I plan meals around specials especially veg in Lidl Aldi Tesco etc. For example if aubergines are on special do aubergine bake. Chicken thighs etc are much cheaper so have been doing in slow cooker with rice and a bit of chorozo. Freeze left over veg. Bangers and mash. If sweet potatoes are on offer do a sweet potato curry. Cook from scratch as much as possible. Bargains, no jars. Keep expensive meat to a minumum. Freeze leftovers including baked beans. Eggs, home made soda bread.

Kimchipancakes · 27/06/2017 14:19

If you add boiling water to the dogs dry food and then leave it to cool completely it looks and has the texture and more of an aroma similar to the soft canned food, the vet recommended this to us a while ago when the dog was ill for two weeks or so to encourage him to eat

snoopypoodle · 27/06/2017 14:23

K1 I understand what you're saying but our situation is a little complicated ATM. DP covers mortgage, council tax, water bills, tv licence, repairs we are currently having to have done in the house, any extras at weekends, and also (big) debts we have gotten into over the last year or so due to a very difficult situation we were in.
He has nothing left at the end of each month.

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DudeHatesHisCarryOut · 27/06/2017 15:10

I'd buy the dog food first (Zooplus, maybe?) though, as someone has already suggested, think about cutting the tins down for a month. If you have a poundland near I'd get shampoo etc there. And make sure you have enough loo paper in.

Then see what you have left. There are 4 weeks in July which is better than it could be, though, potentially, leaves you with £25 a week for food. Doable, but maybe not fun. I'd go for large tubs of yogurt and decant them into tubs for your son (maybe add some jam?). And then, as pp have said, go for the large sacks of pasta and rice. Use lentils to bulk out meals, and maybe think of going vegetarian for the month.

Nicpem1982 · 27/06/2017 18:19

Hi op,

Sorry things are difficult at the moment :(

we stick to a strict food budget every week but manage to eat well (we are 2 adults and dd 2 and 2 cats)

We buy veg at our greengrocers and meat from our local butchers this helps us to budget as supermarket meat is expensive

On an average week we'll eat:

Beef chilli (bulk cooked with beef, veggies, chick peas) served with rice

Sweet potatoe falafel salad and flat bread (home made)

Braised chicken thighs with garlic and noodles

Mushroom and garlic pasta worh garlic bread

Haddock/ham and sweet corn chowder bread

Home made pizzas

Chinese chicken rice stir fry

We take sandwiches/left overs for lunch and cereal for breakfast

Dd has fruit for dessert and always eats what we have

Crumbs1 · 27/06/2017 18:37

I recall very boring meal plans when children were young and funds were tight.
Tomato pasta with homemade sauce (onion, tinned tomatoes, garlic, tiny amount of sugar and basil simmered to a sauce). Top with cheese.
Risotto made in similar way but with rice. Add a little chicken or some ham.
Roast a chicken at weekend and use leftover meat for a curry or pasties next day. Make chicken and rice soup from same chicken.
Baked potatoes were always a good cheap,option too.
Macaroni cheese is easy and cheap with frozen peas and topped with tomato.
Lunch for children was often plain pasta and carrot/cucumber sticks or cheese/beans on toast or spaghetti hoops. Add a fish finger for extra variety.

Eggs are Brilliant and cheap - omelettes, boiled eggs and soldiers, scrambled eggs, French toast.

Neverknowing · 27/06/2017 19:19

Do your shopping online, there's often deals for money off. I think Sainsbury's do £20 off if you spend £60 ?

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