My ex and his new partner have dog-sat for me a few times since he moved in with her. I'm taking the dc off for a week or so in the summer holidays and ex said "so do you want us to have the dog again?" and I said that would be great.
So he said he'd ask new partner. She's agreed but reluctantly because Dog was a pain in the butt last time and also because I'd said when it was casually suggested that I take her dogs when they want to go away, I said nope.
I have smaller house and cat. She has 2 dogs, one of which is huuuge. I also feel like her dogs are nothing to do with me, as they were hers before ex and she got together, whereas I feel like mine is still partly my ex's responsibility as he chose him and convinced me to get a dog in the first place. I kept Dog when we split because I thought losing both Dad and dog from the house at the same time would have been even worse for the dc.
AIBU to refuse to have her dogs? (Tbh I would rather put Dog in kennels than do turnabout dog-sitting)