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To leave this job after a month?

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orangeredpink · 25/06/2017 13:43

A few months ago I was made redundant from a job I loved, it was very "challenging" (managing large scale projects/large budgets/management of a team), and highly autonomous - basically a "your budget for the year is £x, your targets are x, go and do it", and after several years running my own business it was the type of environment I thrived in.

I got a new role almost immediately, which was sold as a similar role in a high growth focused company, I told I was their first hire for this particular business function, they had no experience in the area and it was now vital they had someone to do this. The salary was £20k lower, but there was no longer a commute and hours were slightly shorter - so I tried to convince myself I was ok with the drop in salary - and of course, a job paying something is better than potentially weeks of unemployment waiting for a job with the right salary.

However, once I started I quickly realised the job wasn't as it seems:

  • They copied my job description from a competitor without any real understanding of what they were hiring for, and how it would, or in my case wouldn't fit in with their business.
  • My "business function" is split into 5 key areas - they actually have 2 people doing 4 of these areas, so I'm left with 1 to do - and then another area which they seem to think has something to do with my role but really doesn't. This isn't enough to fill 40 hours a week, and I'm just so bored, it's too "easy" and the type of work in my previous role I'd have an assistant doing.
  • The other 4 areas are being done by people with little to no experience in the area and they are being done badly - I've suggested improvements/asked questions but I've basically been told to keep out as I'm "stepping on toes".
  • There is no autonomy, every minor task has to be ran by the owner who has no understanding of what I'm doing. I feel like I've moved from my senior position managing multi-million pound budgets and taken 10 massive career steps backwards back into a junior role, in all but the job title. This combined with the drop in salary is making me feel like a complete failure.

I've been here for a month and was hoping my initial issues were "new job woes" but it doesn't seem like it's going to change.

As much as I want to leave and find something more suited to my experience before my last job I left another position after a few weeks as my manager was unbearable to work for. I don't really want to end up with a reputation of leaving jobs after a few weeks, especially in the small industry I work in. AIBU to leave?!

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LiveLongAndProspero · 25/06/2017 13:46

I'd coast and use the empty time to jobhunt if I were you, its easier to get a job when you already have one. You can always make it sound better in an interview than it actually is.

PaperdollCartoon · 25/06/2017 13:46

Hmm. I'm a headhunter and talk to People about their jobs all day. If there's any chance of staying 6 months that would look better on CV, but in the situation you describe I don't think you'd be unreasonable to look elsewhere.

Have you approached whoever you report into and/or who hired you to discuss the fact you've been missold the job?

orangeredpink · 25/06/2017 14:02

Yes, I've tried to discuss it but the only real response I've got from them is I can work with the tech team if I need more work (which has nothing to do with my role) and that they're happy with the scope of my role.

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MrsPorth · 25/06/2017 15:30

I wouldn't leave - you may end up rushing into something unsuitable in order to avoid being jobless. Better to use your free time at work to talk to headhunters/search for appropriate roles.

Working with the tech team might be a good idea - it's nothing to do with your job spec but it may be interesting/different enough to keep you from going mad with boredom whilst you job hunt.

pinkstinks · 25/06/2017 15:46

I'm leaving a job after a month because I was missold too. Funding for my last job got cut so I took this one and it's just not what they said it was.
Have got another job and they didn't even probe too much about why I was leaving because I said about the previous one ending due to cuts.
They were pleased as I haven't been there six months I can start the new role in a week as only have to give a weeks notice.
Life's too short to be unhappy just start looking and leave when you can. Be polite about it and don't leave under a cloud but be honest.
Good luck!

LouiseBrooks · 25/06/2017 15:59

Don't leave but start looking for another job straight away. I've been in a similar situation, I hung on for a year hoping it would get better and it made no difference to me getting another job. I just wasted a year.

I also had a job several years later that I realised within 48 hours was going to be a disastrous move for me. I left after 6 weeks and temped for a while but I had some cash in the bank to cushion me (those were the days ...).

ImperfectTents · 25/06/2017 20:29

God just leave. Write this job out of your cv with judicious dating

Blodplod · 25/06/2017 20:37

Second the 'just leave' advice.. I'm assuming you're financially able to? Write it out of CV or just say you fancied a month or two sabbatical. No one needs to know you ever worked there.. I've just had 3.5 years out of my career and not even children related or maternity leave and got a job pretty much straight away without any questions asked although I explained I took time out to renovate my house after being made redundant.

orangeredpink · 30/06/2017 12:49

It feels like I wrote this post weeks ago because its been such a long, slow, mindnumbingly boring week. I keep suggesting tasks I could do, or improvements made to existing processes which I have years of experience with and just keep getting "it's not within your role", well it was supposed to be, and I'm sure I can do a better job of it than the graduate with 6 months experience who is making obvious mistakes.

Financially I can leave now, but I'd already booked and paid for lots of holiday clubs for DC which they're looking forward to (in Scotland so the school holidays start today) so I think I'm just going to stay and job hunt whilst I'm there, or for as long as I can take the boredom, at the very least having a job will stop me rushing into another bad one because "its better that no job".

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