My ex partner and Father of my 4 years old Son has a new girlfriend.
When they first met he was still hurt from the fact I had left him so kept going on and on about how awful I was. He admits this and has apologised. Stating that he was hurt even though it has been 2 years since we split. I knew nothing of her until my ex said in passing he had gone on a few dates with a woman and it was now over but she had a crazy ex who might contact me and could I block him if he did.
I'm really not getting involved with this so I said okay. Her ex did contact me and in the message on facebook he sent me loads of messages my ex's new girlfriend. All of them were complaining about me. How he shouldn't take me to the supermarket every Sunday (I don't drive and live rurally). How he shouldn't have seen me on Mother's Day etc. Complaining that he loved me not her and wouldn't introduce her to me etc. I don't care about that but his girlfriend had screenshot several posts from my Facebook and was clearly spending a lot of time looking at my facebook profile and screenshotting my posts.
I blocked this guy but this has unnerved me. I don't even know her so can't block her and she seems to be very pre occupied with me to an almost obsessive extent.
I would love him to meet someone lovely but I don't think this relationship will last long! I have put my profile on restricted but I still hate the idea of this woman looking at my facebook. I've asked my ex for her name so I can block her but he will not. I think this is unreasonable.
I know she could set up a new facebook anyway but I should be able to use facebook without having his new girlfriend stalking my profile. I also find it bizarre she's trying so hard to stop him seeing my Son and I.
AIBU to ask him for her name so I can block her? I understand anyone can search us on facebook but screenshotting my posts is creepy and unnerving.
AIBU?