I need to know what the appropriate level of support I should be giving without stepping on anyone's toes.
Background is me and my ex of a year split in January, both still lived at home so became very very close to his immediate family and kept in touch. We split amicably and parted on good terms with a lot of affection on either end though we tried to ignore each other on social media to make the split easier. He's now dating someone knew casually and it's early days and I am with a new man aswell.
His dad became suddenly unwell the other day and will definitely not pull through, he'll probably go this weekend,I am the only person who ex had rang or talked about it to and I have been there willing to listen and am upset too as I loved his dad.
He hasn't told his friends or the girl he's dating and while he hasn't said anything I think the guy I'm with is a but uncomfortable about the level of contact.
On the other hand his family life was difficult though noones fault and I'm the only person outside his family that get how much this is going to change things for everyone
What should I do?