My husband checked the online banking today to find out we are on the overdraft by nearly £200. When he checked he saw £149 had gone out via paypal for an ebay purchase he said he didn't order although it was a car part he had looked at a while ago. He had also ordered 2 watches which he said he would probably cancel.
Anyway he asked to request a return to ebay which i have done but still waiting to hear from the seller. I also cancelled the watches which he has now gone mad about. He swore at me on the phone and called me controlling. He hung up on me twice so i have ignored his calls as he is trying to call me back.
He has just left me a nasty voicemail saying if I don't answer thee phone he is transferring £300 from the savings and re ordering the watch and cancelling an order i had made which is a rucksack for our son's birthday soon. Its not like I ordered something for myself, it's for our son and i ordered it when we had money in the bank and it's only £9.00.
What I want to say is why not order the watch when it's payday instead of using savings or overdraft.
Am I unreasonable for cancelling the items even though he briefly mentioned it himself when he told me to contact the ebay seller? I hate debt, I find it really stressful and i also hate just dipping into savings as at some time they will run out.