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To feel really self conscious alone

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iridescentblue · 17/06/2017 21:28

And most weekends I am alone for most of the time. I might see a friend for a couple of hours on Saturday or Sunday but that's it.

I find most things - shopping, walks in the parks, a nice lunch out - that I might like to do have couples and families there and just aren't that much fun on my own. And surrounded by families I feel self conscious. The only thing I can comfortably do alone it seems is exercise. Does anyone feel the same?

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user1496604328 · 18/06/2017 09:27

iridescentblue do you work? Have hobbies? Won't your friends meet sometimes during the week also?
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ThroughThickAndThin01 · 18/06/2017 09:40

Another idea, you say you like exercise, why don't you join a running club. For new runners, if you haven't done it before.

I joined a running club as a novice eighteen months ago. We meet on a Saturday morning at 8.30, do our run which has built up in distance, then go for a coffee. I don't get home until about midday, feeling tired and talked out! Lots in my group are single, and aged from 34 to around 60. We've started doing proper events as well 5 miles, 10k etc, (we all run at different abilities), and they take up a whole day at the weekends. Just an idea. I don't have as much time as I'd like to devote to it, it could take up a lot of time if you wanted it to.

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