My partner has two sons from a previous marriage, I was just having a nosey at the CSA maintenance calculator and found that he is paying nearly double the expected amount.
Now I feel awful writing this as they are lovely kids, I feel like I'm going to get flamed for saying this. I completely support him supporting his children. But we have no savings, no back up, honestly don't think we will manage Christmas this year. We are always waiting for the next payday. Would I be unreasonable to see if it could be lowered?
For background info, we have been together for 7 years and have 1 dc ourselves. EXW dosent work and go on 2 holidays a year (we can't afford 1) partner works full time plus over time and I'm part time as my wage dosent cover childcare for our dc. Like I said I feel awful because this money goes to his children and I know that is so so important I really do, but I do worry if the car breaks down or something we will be screwed.
Am I awful?
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Boring12 · 16/06/2017 18:06
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